One Month Challenge

Posted: October 1, 2011 in Ramblings

What I’ve realized this past year is that it’s so hard to maintain friendships when people don’t see you everyday (high school) or live next door (college). It requires enough work and planning that it can become overwhelming.

Recently, I’ve experienced a crushing desire to meet up with people but faced the dilemma that my reputation proceeds me but that I am significantly less fun, ratchet and rowdy. I grew up, but not everyone sees that. Why describe it as crushing? I have a fear of rejection yet a strong desire to be around people. And then there’s the traveling all over.

But me and a Blockie have imposed a one-month limit of seeing each other that jokingly is our way of setting a minimum not maximum. So over the next few months I’m going to aim to see my nyc friends at least once a month. Let’s see what happens, I’ll report back on my progress periodically.

  1. Fiona.q says:

    show your blog to them, then they will realize how fun you are, lol.

  2. blockie says:

    gotta double up for october!!

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